Top 10 Romantic Songs

 

Don't Want to Miss a Thing
Sung by the rock band Aerosmith, the song was taken from the Armageddon soundtrack and made its appearance at number one on the Billboard Hot 100 in the year 1998.


Truly Madly Deeply
A popular song of the year 1997, Truly Madly Deeply was sung by the Australian pop band Savage Garden. It is the third song in the band's debut album, titled ‘Savage Garden’.

Everything I Do (I Do It For You)
Written and sung by Bryan Adams, the song was listed in his album ‘Waking up the Neighbours’ in the year 1991. It is also found in the soundtrack of the film 'Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves' released in the same year.

My Heart Will Go On
The song is from one of the most popular romantic movies of all times - ‘Titanic’. Released in 1997, it is the theme song of the movie and has been sung by Celine Dion.

Wicked Games
One of the most romantic songs till date, 'Wicked Games' was sung by Chris Isaak. The song featured in his third studio album - 'Heart Shaped World' in the year 1989.

Take My Breath Away
From the 'Top Gun soundtrack album', 'Take My Breath Away' also featured in the movie 'Top Gun'. Sung by the band Berlin, the song was released in the year 1986.

Come Away With Me
Norah Jones, a pianist and singer, made a debut with the romantic track 'Come Away With Me'. The song was released in the year 2002, under the title ‘Studio Album’.

I Just Called To Say I Love You - Stevie Wonder
'I Just Called To Say I Love You' was featured in the 1984 movie ‘The Woman in Red’. It was written, produced as well as performed by the renowned artist - Stevie Wonder.

From This Moment On
Sung by Shania Twain, 'From This Moment On' is the song that was listed in her multi-platinum album, 'Come on Over'. It was released in the year 1997.

This I Promise You
The song 'This I Promise You' featured in the second album of the band 'Nsync', as the third song. The name of the album was ‘No Strings Attached’ and it was released in the year 2000.

Top 10 Romantic Comedies of 2011

1. Bridesmaids

If they gave supporting actor Oscars to the most surprisingly funny performance of the year, Melissa McCarthy would win one for her laugh out loud turn in Bridesmaids. A strong female cast – led by SNL alumni Kristen Wiig and Maya Rudolph – is allowed the privilege of being genuinely funny. Wiig – easily the funniest thing on SNL since Amy Poehler departed – also does co-writing duties. Mad Men’s Jon Hamm proves once again that he’s good at comedy – and also, douchebaggery. In a nutshell, this is like Caddyshack for chicks.

 

2. Something Borrowed

It seems like Kate Hudson thought, “I wonder if it’s possible to make Bride Wars again, but not have it suck,” and then this script, based on Emily Giffin’s first two novels, came to her. The criminally adorable Ginnifer Goodwin plays a girl who decides to pursue the “one that got away” only after he announces his engagement to her best friend. But we probably aren’t going to feel too sorry for Kate Hudson, since it doesn’t seem like she loves him much anyway. Great reasons to tune in are what are sure to be outstanding comic performances by John Krasinksi and Reba alum Steve Howey.

 

3. Friends with Benefits

This is like that Ashton Kutcher/Natalie Portman movie, No Strings, though hopefully it will not bomb quite so spectacularly. At least, Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis hope so. Though if you think about, Timberlake and Kunis are kind of like, Bizarro World versions of Kutcher and Portman. Oh my God, you guys, are we in a parallel dimension right now? I guess we’ll find out for sure when this movie comes out. OR WILL WE?

 

4. Gnomeo and Juliet

It’s a film about garden gnomes living out the story of Romeo and Juliet and set to the tune of Elton John’s greatest hits. Sure, it might be the sort of movie that started out because someone said “Haha, Gnomeo and Juliet. That would be a good title” and then it snowballed. But a talented voice cast – including James McAvoy and Emily Blunt as the titular doomed gnomes – elevates the tale and – spoiler alert – gives it a much happier ending than the original.

 

5. Just Go With It

Try to stay with me: Adam Sandler plays a man who likes one night stands. But bitches be clingy, yo! So he’s found both foolproof bait, and next-day woman repellant, all in one handy item: a wedding ring. Because bitches love shit they can’t have, yo! But then bitches be guilty. Meanwhile, he meets the girl of his dreams – only she finds the wedding ring he never put on in his bag! Damn, bitches be snooping through your shit, yo. Cue Jennifer Aniston, Sandler’s employee, who has to pretend to be his soon-to-be-ex wife so the new girlfriend will not feel guilty about boning him. Then everybody goes to Hawaii, probably because it’s a lot nicer to film there.

6. One Day

And the award for “most improbable RomCom contrivance” goes to… this movie, where the always delightful Anne Hathaway stars alongside the “was in that Julie Tambour movie with the Beatles songs” Jim Sturgess as star-crossed lovers who spend one day together each year. At no point, apparently, do they ever say, “Hey, let’s just do a weekend at your place, see what happens.” I suppose it does cut down on most of the issues couples fight about, with the exception of, “You never spend any time with me.”

 

7. New Year’s Eve

If you loved Garry Marshall’s Valentine’s day, buy your tickets now for New Year’s Eve, its spiritual sequel. It boasts another who’s-who of romantic comedy idols – such as Valentine’s Day stars Ashton Kutcher and Jessica Beil, as well as Katherine Heigl, Zac Efron, Michelle Pfeiffer, Lea Michele, and some freshed face RomCom star called Robert DeNiro. It also  hopefully boasts at least two genuinely well done story strands. I always secretly hope these movies will be as good as Love Actually and they never, ever are. Fingers crossed!

8. Wanderlust

Jennifer Aniston did me wrong twice last year – with the awful movie “The Switch” and the even more awful movie, “The Bounty Hunter.” But I just can’t help myself: I love the crazy beeyotch. I also love Paul Rudd. Wanderlust will supposedly supplant their somewhat yuppie-inspired, NYC couple into the land of hippies, communes, and the marijuana. Rumors abound that Jennifer Aniston shows her boobs at one point, so this one’s for you, gentlemen.

 

9. Bad Teacher

I will admit: I am totally there because I think it’s awesome when people who used to go out with each other in real life are later forced to work together in awkward romantic situations. Witness: the case of Justin Timberlake and Cameron Diaz. It looks like he’s a nerdy school teacher and she’s some kind of drunken whore. I admit, the sound was off when I watched the trailer, so this assessment is based solely on the visuals. Though now that I attempt to combine the visuals with the title, I bet Cameron Diaz is the “bad teacher.” Well done, moviemakers.

 

10. Midnight in Paris

Woody Allen strikes again! Just when you thought he was only going to make stilted, serious dramas where the actors stare at one another seriously until someone is murdered toward the end, the genius director returns to his romantic comedy roots. Rachel McAdams and Owen Wilson both appear, though hopefully the presence of Marion Cotillard will prevent this from being anything like Wedding Crashers.

 

source : totallytop10.com

Top 10 best love poems

 

1. How Do I Love Thee?
By Elizabeth Barrett Browning


2. O My Love's Like a Red, Red Rose
By Robert Burns

3. i love you much(most beautiful darling)
By ee cummings

4. The Garden of Love
By William Blake

5. When You Are Old
By William Butler Yeats

6. I Do Not Love You
By Pablo Neruda

7. I Would Live in Your Love
By Sara Teasdale

8. Let These Be Your Desires
By Kahlil Gibran

9. Love Not Me
By John Wilbye

10. The Healing Heart
By Gary R. Hess

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Top 10 Love Quotes

 

1. There is only one happiness in life -- to love and to be loved.

George Sand
1804-1876, French Novelist



 2. What I needed most was to love and to be loved, eager to be caught. Happily I wrapped those painful bonds around me; and sure enough, I would be lashed with the red-hot pokers or jealousy, by suspicions and fear, by burst of anger and quarrels.

St. Augustine
354-430, Numidian-born Bishop of Hippo, Theologian





3. "When you are in Love you can't fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams."

Dr Seuss


4. Women wish to be loved not because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves.

Henri Frederic Amiel
1821-1881, Swiss Philosopher, Poet, Critic



5. The best thing about me is you.

Shannon Crown



6. Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime.

Bette Davis


7. If you love me, let me know. If not, please gently let me go.

Anonymous



8. You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

Sam Keen

9. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

Heather Cortez


10. The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

Helen Keller

source : http://www.1-love-quotes.com

10 Mistakes Women Make With Men

 

MISTAKE #1: Betting Your Love Life On His “Potential”
Do you know any women who want the man they're dating to behave differently? Of course you do.
And just like me, I'm sure you have friends who date guys who don't have much going for them or who don't treat them very well. Somehow these women always have an excuse for the guy's shortcomings.


What's going on here?
It's actually very simple.

Women (and men) don't base their choices of men on how “nice” or “good” someone is to them day-to-day. Women choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?
Some women will continue to put up with a guy that doesn't treat them very well. Sometimes for months or years...

But why in the world would a woman do that!?
Well, to put it simply, they confuse the strong attraction they feel for the guy with a deeper “connection”. Women who do this are doomed to end up in failed relationships with the “wrong” guys.

How do I know?
Because I've seen it at least a hundred times...And because I've been this guy in the past myself. Thinking back on past dating and relationships I've had, I was selfish and didn't offer much. I'm amazed the women put up with me. But they did...all the while hoping that I would somehow change. The women I dated hoped I'd change.

The only thing they saw in me that led them to want to keep me around was the “potential” they saw in me to share my feelings and communicate with them. The potential for something better and the potential for me to change and be a better lover, boyfriend, companion or whatever...The truth was, I was hopelessly bad at these things at the time.

And more importantly, I wasn't even at a place in my life where I knew how to or was interested in developing a deep and committed relationship - with ANYONE. But deep down these women believed that if they tried hard enough, that it would make up for what was lacking. They believed that I could become someone else with them.... and that this would be easy for us both. Talk about a losing battle. It doesn't make a lot of “logical” sense... But until you accept that lots of women do this AND that YOU could be doing it on some level, you'll NEVER have the success with men that you choose and want.


MISTAKE #2: Assuming You “Get” Men & Their Psychology Men are different from women. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a woman sees a man, she can very quickly pick apart certain things about his style, body language, status and character that will tell her all kinds of things about him. Lots of women don't even consciously see that they do this because the process is so obvious and simple for them.

But does the same apply for men?
As you probably already know, men are generally more visual. As a result, they often don't understand non-verbal communication as well as women. And men often lack what women have in emotional awareness and “intuition”. Women don't seem to remember this about men.

So do men feel sexually attracted to w0men based just on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying this topic for years now, and talking to thousands of men and women, I can tell you that men have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks. Especially when it comes to longer term relationships. Looks just happen to be the most obvious way...

But looks are NOT the most powerful.
If you know how to use your body language AND communication correctly, you can make men feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see that hot, great looking guy that you got to know. But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this. And ANY woman can learn how...


MISTAKE #3: Pretending To Be Something For A Man
In the desire to please a man, women are constantly doing things to get a man's attention, to get him to like them or to make him more attracted or in love with them. Another HORRIBLE idea. Lots of women mistakenly think that doing unusual things to try and get a guys attention will make him magically see what a great catch they are and want to be with them.

Wrong.
Men YOU TRULY WANT are never attracted to the types of women who kiss up to them, make weak plays for affection or complain to get what they want... EVER. Don't get me wrong here. Things like being sexy for a man or encouraging him to share his feelings can be good, but it has to be genuine, unselfish, and most of all timely.

You don't have to act like an “easy” woman for men to like you, and you certainly don't have to play like he's some gift to the Earth. Doing these things actually works to subtly, at an subconscious level, lower your social status with a man, which has EVERYTHING to do with how he sees you as a woman.

So if you think that making him more attracted to you means “playing to the man's fantasies” from the start, think again. You'll never succeed by looking for a man's approval, finding your way into his heart through sex and not being yourself.

MISTAKE #4: Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they “feel” too early on.

Listen...
Attractive, single, successful men are rare. They get a LOT of attention from women. Most women don't realize this, but attractive men are being approached in one way or another all the time by women.

And guess what?
Attractive men have usually dated a lot of women.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything... It's a woman who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates. This signals to the man that you're just like one of those “clingy” stereotype women who want to rush into a relationship and can't control yourself from wanting a man to fulfill them and complete their lives.

This does NOT spell ATTRACTION for a man.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...


MISTAKE #5: Misreading The Important “Signals” That Men Send 
 
Men are constantly communicating how they feel about a woman and giving away big secrets about themselves. Most women don't pay attention to these signals or recognize them for what they really are.
The signals men send have 4 main levels:

1) Social: Where the man is at in his own life - stability, confidence, direction 2) Emotional: Whether or not he's “emotionally available”
3) Physical: If he's attracted to you... and for what reasons
4) Love State: If he's open to building and growing a relationship in the future
The funny thing is that men send signals in these areas completely on accident. That's great news to women... Men can't help it! You need to learn to recognize these signals to get anywhere serious with a man.


MISTAKE #6: Relying On Your Natural Ability To Judge A Man's Character 
 
People aren't easy to figure out. Especially men.
The last several years of my life I've spent hundreds of hours learning to understand people. I've studied peoples behavior, “inner psychology” and more specifically how they think and act when they're dating.

From what I've seen, both men and women have their own secret ways of saying things. But you can only see these secret communications if you know what to look for.  Women communicate with hints, body language, sarcasm, and flirting when they're first getting to know a man. They can either directly or indirectly let men know if they're open to something more serious.

Men are different.
Men generally communicate with sarcasm, humor, cockiness and other “indirect” displays of status. VERY RARELY will a man be able to honestly communicate to a woman whether or not he's ready or capable of developing a meaningful relationship.

Aside from their sexual interests, men send very indirect signals about where they're at. If you don't know how to read through the signals men send, then you'll get the wrong message. Getting the wrong messages from men causes women more pain and heartache than any other issue around. You can avoid this pain if you learn to identify a good man from a bad one.


MISTAKE #7: Expecting A Relationship To Make You Happy 
 
A mistake I've seen women make is thinking a guy will change her life and make her happy and fulfilled. And sure, there are situations and relationships where this happens. But those are the exceptions, not the rule. Nothing says “Run!” to a man faster than hearing or sensing that a woman immediately wants him to take care of her.

And the men who ARE looking for this kind of situation aren't exactly the most healthy, loving, nurturing people out there. Think, “controlling, macho, or serious Mom Issues!”

So let me be clear...
I think it's important that people help fulfill each other in their lives, whether it's dating, a relationship, whatever. But if a woman communicates that she's looking for a guy to take care of her, complete her, make her whole, and all that kind of stuff - it has a VERY negative effect on what the man will think of her. It doesn't have to be spoken by the woman either...

If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man will see it and pick up on it, regardless. This is arguably the worst thing a woman can do early on when dating a man.

So what can you do as a woman?
You can get the man interested and involved in your life in a more “natural” way, where he'll be motivated to make you care about your happiness and fulfillment on his own. This is the only way it really works for people - male or female. Self-motivation is much stronger than external motivation. But you have to know how to create this situation with a man... and it rarely happens by accident.


MISTAKE #8: Trying To “Convince” Him To Like You Or Love You 
 
What do most women do when they meet a man that they REALLY like... but he's just not that interested or isn't as serious? Right! They try to “convince” the man to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you...

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never, ever, ever.

You cannot convince a man to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”. Think about it. If a man doesn't “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that by being “reasonable” with him?

But we all do it. Men are the worst at this by the way. They're always complimenting women who don't like them and buying them gifts. Women like the behavior sometimes, but it NEVER makes the woman like the man. She might enjoy what she gets out of it, but it doesn't change the way she FEELS about him. When a man just isn't interested, women will try and chase, compliment, convince and do their best to change his mind with logical and rational approaches. Bad idea. Another one that will never work.

 
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation 
 
A man has a clear idea of what he wants from a woman...
And I don't mean just sex.

I know, it might be hard to believe, but if you're out on a date with a man, he already has an idea of what he wants from you. And if you don't know HOW to find this out, and you just sit there looking at him and flirting, or trying things you think will make him want you, he won't help! If you don't know what to do in each situation, you'll probably screw it up...
and LOSE EVERYTHING.


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help 
 
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This mistake keeps women from EVER having the kind of success and finding the kind of man and relationship that they truly want. I know, you don't like to make yourself look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help. Hey, I've been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me.
Over the last few years it's been hard to watch the women around me (even those I dated) struggle to understand the men they were attracted to or dating. It frustrated the hell out of me and I made the decision to do whatever it took to help the women I knew learn how to be successful with men and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and doing all kinds of crazy things to learn the real-world truth about men and women, I finally figured things out for myself. I've read hundreds of books on psychology, human behavior, dating/relationship advice for men and women, love, attraction, communication, and more. The list goes on.

I can now approach just about any situation with dating and feel confident and understand everything that's going on in an interaction. Best of all, I've been able to share my knowledge and help women become more successful with men and dating. It's been a very rewarding experience, and it's how I became fascinated with the female perspective in the dating world.

I've helped women get rid of that sick, insecure feeling... the one you get when you're lonely, you've been hurt or lied to, or when a man you have feelings for says “he's not ready”. You don't have to be afraid you might wind up being lied to, cheated on or that you'll end up alone.

Oh, I Almost Forgot...
In this day and age of “instant gratification”, I realize this might just sound like another late-night info-mercial promising to make you wealthy and retired by next week. Well, that's not the case.

I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy studying, observing and understanding this area of life. I wanted to design and create a book that ANY woman could easily understand. Something you could start using IMMEDIATELY to meet, attract, date, and get close with a great guy. I want to help you create an amazing relationship with the right man... without having to deal with all the wrong men, be “manipulated” or experience the pain and loss I've helped other women avoid.
I now believe that ANY woman can be more successful with men and dating, and I get emails every day with success stories from women. They've taken what they've learned and found great guys and are growing meaningful relationships.

I know, I know... a book that can teach a regular girl how to be more successful in the dating world? No way.

Well believe me, this will DRAMATICALLY increase your success, comfort and happiness when it comes to men, dating and relationships... I absolutely guarantee it 100%. If you'd like to take your success with men and dating to the next level, and find how to create the foundation for the relationship that you've always wanted, then go here:
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Thanks for reading and best of luck in life and love.

Your Friend,
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Top 10 Mistakes Guys Make When Trying To Get A Girl

 

1) Wearing the same clothes

B: No… I don’t mean rocking the same gear every day… I mean dressing up the same way as the guy next to you… and the guy next to him… and the guy next to him…….
See, unfortunately, everybody had the same idea you had and went to the mall and bought the exact same shirt. So… Instead of indicating that you’re aware of the fashion trends, you’re indicating that you’re a drone. You have no personal style. Everybody knows that when someone else dictates to you that you should wear something different, that’s what you’re gonna do. No good.

Figure out stuff that YOU like to wear and that YOU look good in and that represents who YOU are as a person, and make up your own style. Separate yourself from the pack. Be that ONE GUY that the chicks want to ask where you shop instead of knowing off the bat from the second you walk in the door with your pack of croanies that look exactly the same as you do.
L: Clothes not only define a person’s personality, but also makes them memorable. At least if you hit it off with a girl, she can remember you by “that guy that was wearing the red and white striped pants” instead of “that guy with the hair”
B: So Funny! :D That happens all the time! “Remember Lisa from Jon’s party?” “Jeans or Skirt?” “Skirt” “Black or Blue” “Black” “The one with the…” “Yeah, Her” “Yeah… What about her?” :D


2) Not having anything in common with her

B: Major Mistake. Major. Choosing a chick to be your girlfriend just because you enjoy hitting it. Is there any other reason TO choose a girlfriend? no. :D However, eventually, you’re going to get bored of tapping it for the gazillionth time, or she’s gonna get out of shape. In either case, you’ll suddenly experience an increase in the time you spend NOT having sex with her. This is where you’ll realize that you have nothing in common with her other than sex and start looking for your way out of the relationship (unless she gets back in shape, in which case, all bets are off! :D ).
Do yourself a favor and make sure you have things in common with your girl so that you can still have a good time with her during “the off season”. Maybe you both like video games. Maybe you both enjoy eating out @ the different restaurants in your town. Maybe you both enjoy watching MMA fights. If so… make sure she knows Jiu-Jitsu so you can kick her ass and she can take it…. um… or maybe she’ll kick YOUR ass for stepping to her sideways! :D
L: VERY TRUE! And like I said before, things in common that don’t count: breathing, eating, showering (and if it does, get the hell outta there), walking, etc… you get the point, right?


3) Bragging about what you have / own
 
B: The only reason a chick’s going to be impressed by what you own is if she doesn’t feel like she can get that for herself. This is fine, if you’re trying to get on for the One Night Stand, but really poor technique if you’re trying to pull a chick for a Long Term Relationship.
You don’t want a chick to chill with you so she can lamp on your yacht. You don’t want her to show up to parties with you because you’re about to sell your startup. You don’t want a chick befriending you because you’re internet famous and hooking up with you’s going to drastically improve her google ranking.
At the same time… How lame IS IT that when you have a chance to tell her about yourself as a person, the best things you can say for yourself are generic things that like a million other guys are doing every day? Everybody gets money. Everybody has a form of transportation… Even if that’s just a MetroCard. Tell chicks what makes you DIFFERENT from the other guys, not what makes you SIMILAR, and thus INTERCHANGEABLE with other guys.
L: Bill is absolutely right on this one. Talking about the stuff you have not only makes you sound conceited, but it makes her think that you are so boring you have to brag about yourself. And that’s going to attract one kind of girl: GOLD DIGGERS. If you’re OK with that, why not just walk around the street handing out $100 bills? Oh and let’s just say one day you get old, ugly, fat and there’s someone else out there more popular than you (and younger) – your chick is gonna head straight for that guy because there’s nothing substantial about you except your rank, which is shot to shit – and money – which is long gone spent on her. She needs a new sugar daddy.


4) Meeting chicks in bars

B: Do NOT meet chicks in bars. :( You know what kinds of chicks you meet in bars?….. Chicks that go to bars.
What’s the problem with that? Nothing, if you’re just trying to get on. If you’re looking for a girlfriend, choose one that does something CONSTRUCTIVE with her time. If she’s at the bar, tipping a glass back @ 3:30am, she’s NOT in the gym @ 7am staying in shape. Capisce? :D Go pick up chicks at the book store. That way, you know she’ll probably be READING in the middle of the night while you’re studying for your law degree instead of drinking her ass off at some bar and giving it up to the next man. :D
L: yeah, girls that meet guys at bars are classy. real classy. Let me tell you, fellow – you got yourself a real winner there. Just don’t be crying to me when your beer goggles fade away and you got yourself a coyote ugly the next morning.


5) Not checking out her moms

B: The FIRST THING you want to do if you’re considering keeping a chick is check out her moms! :D
If you see your [pending] girlfriend’s mother, and she’s still fine as hell, and you’re like “If I weren’t dating her daughter, she could GET IT!”, then she probably passed those good genes to your girl and you can look forward to another 25 years of feeling like plastering that. Also, if your girl’s moms is COOL AS HELL, like you wouldn’t be surprised to see her with her hand up in the air at a club, shakin’ her groove thang, you know she probably brought her daughter up to be cool also.
Just don’t overdo it on the moms thing, or you might end up on The Maury Show. :D
L: Totally, looks wise, definitely look at the mom. She may look good now… but you can never tell what she’ll look like when she’s older and her mom is that insight to the future.


6) Lame pickup lines

L: If you have to resort to using lame pickup lines, then congratulations, you’re a huge DOUCHEBAG and I hope you feel good about yourself. You’re the guy that the girl talk about when they hang out with their friends. “Remember that lame douchebag from the bar? yeah, he used a pickup line on me. He’s such a loser. I’m telling all my friends” (oops, you’re screwed!).
I think my favorite pick up line is, “Hey, have you met my friend *Ted.” Pause. Me thinking, “How the hell would I have met your lame friend. If I knew him, I would say hi to him, right?” Then response, “Uh, no you’re lame. Bye”.
B: hehehe Yeah, if you’re going to use lines, make sure they’re over the top. Go Big or Go Home! :D Make them so bad that she has to laugh at how corny your line was and gives you humor points instead of subtracting cool points.


7) Buying an incessant amount of drinks for the girl

L: This says 1 thing. One – I am so ugly that I have to get this girl shitfaced so she thinks I look hot then maybe I’ll have a chance to get in her pants. She’s thinking – wow this guy thinks I’m going to hook up with him after he’s buying me all these drinks. I know he’s just trying to make me think he looks good. Too late, I already saw what he looks like.
Girls don’t like guys who they think are desperate and they can easily obtain. Girls like a chase. They like someone who won’t buy them drinks all the time and who will maybe insinuate that they get a drink or two bought for them. This isn’t bad manners, it’s fair and not so out of the blue anymore. It’s the 21st century – let the girls take charge sometime.
B: Oh Man! hahaha Let this be a lesson to you, fellaz! Only buy a lot of drinks for…. girls that have already consumed a lot of drinks!!! :D (lol @ “too late… I already saw what he looks like”, hahahaha)
As far as getting her to buy you drinks, that’s probably a good policy if you intend to date her long-term. If she can’t buy you a $5 beer, that means she’s BROKE. If she’s broke NOW, she’s going to be EVEN MORE BROKE in the future as cost-of-living increases faster than the minimum wage. She’s gonna be EVEN STILL MORE BROKE if you don’t keep your condom game tight and she has a kid offa you. :(
So… Yeah… Get her to get you a drink every now and then so you can check if “Sisters are doin’ it for themselves”! :D


8) Being rude to her friends

L: Boy, this one is a no-brainer. If the girl is on the fence over whether she likes you or not, she’s going to immediately consult her group of close girl friends. If you’re rude to them, they will sway her in the direction out of your favor and you’re history. This is why: You’re too new to the girl for her to believe you over her friends. You’re not someone she can completely trust yet, so your good intentions to her will be quickly overlooked if her friend says, “wow that guy is a jerk. Guess what he said to me.”
In some cases you may have not even been rude, you just gave off a bad vibe and immediately her friend say to her, “Stay away, I have a bad feeling.” In most (not all) cases, the girl will completely dismiss you even though you haven’t been that bad to her. Why? Who know, but it happens. Chicks before dicks.
B: hahahaha OMG! Lindz has an excellent point here. This is why you want to make sure to steer clear of ALL of a chick’s friends….. until you Tap That Azzzz! :D
After that, you can do what you want… be rude to her friends… kick it to her sister… Her judgement will be completely JACKED since you’re now “the one” and can do no wrong! :D


9) Talking about previous relationships

L: The last thing a girl wants to hear is about your last ex and how you were in love with her but she broke your heart – or whatever the situation is. She’s trying to get to know YOU, not your ex. Plus, bringing up previous flames will ignite more and more questions. Why did she break up with you. Is he comparing me to her? How do I compare?
You’ll want to talk about yourself and leave out anything involving other girls when you first meet her – even if the girl is strictly platonic. Just to make sure you avoid jealousy. Plus, bad mouthing other girls and exes in front of the new girl gives an insight onto the kind of person you are. It’s like an interview – you never badmouth your old boss, no matter what kind of a jerk he was!
B: Absolutely. It’s not about the past. It’s about the present and the future. Like she said, you can’t win by talking your ex UP or talking your ex DOWN, so leave her out, entirely. :D If your new chick is just crazy nosey (or just crazy) and insists on hearing what happened to your ex, have a good story prepared… Something like your ex girl, whom you met in a bar, overdid it with the drinking one night and accidentally stumbled into a recruitment station and signed up for a 20-year bid with the Army……. in Zimbabwe.


10) Not keeping your word

L: If you meet a girl for the first time and get her number and say you’re gonna call, then don’t, then forget any sort of future chances with her. If you can’t even keep your word on calling her, then how do you expect her to think you’ll keep your word on the first day and not stand her up. First impressions are a huge deal breaker so make sure you are up front and honest with her. If you take her number and can’t get together for 2 weeks, at least call her to let her know you enjoyed meeting her.
B: This is another good reason not to meet women in bars. Depending on how much YOU drank that night, word or no word, hahaha you might not remember meeting her AT ALL!!! :D coughanniecough But yeah, there are a lot of guys that see getting numbers as an END and not a MEANS. It’s more like “just in case” rather than an actual intention to call the chick, because you probably got numbers the day before and the weekend before that as well. Asking for a gal’s number doesn’t push her to the head of the list to get a call, but if you SAID you were going to get in touch with her, you really should make some attempt to reach out to her. The most important aspect of ANY relationship is TRUST. If you blow your credibility, you’re toast.
The way around this is to make sure you TRADE NUMBERS instead of just getting HER number. That way, you easily counter “You didn’t call me! :( ” with “YOU didn’t call ME! :D “
Lindz & Bill
 
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Top 10 Romantic Novels

1. Gone with the wind by Margaret Mitchell
You’ve seen the movie but never read the book? Fiddle-de-dee! The love triangle between Scarlett, Ashley and Rhett is much more intense on the pages than on the reel.

And for ladies it’s a MUST read because somehow, somewhere you’ll be able to relate to many faces of Scarlett’s. How she was sweet, selfish, scheming and sensitive and how she loses the man she loved and how she falls in love with a man whom she hated, it’s spellbinding.

This one should be number 1 in your bucket list.


2. Outlander by Diana Gabaldon
It’s a series of time-travel romances that will completely enthrall you. The story is about Claire Beauchamp who travels back in time to a violent Scotland after serving in WWII torn England as a nurse. On her journey, she falls in love with spirited warrior Jamie, who is the polar opposite of her husband Frank.

Who will she choose and in which era will she decide to stay? If you want to know read the book. We bet her dilemma will drive you crazy more than the protagonist herself.

3. The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks
It’s a sheer tear-jerker that shouldn’t deter you from reading even if you’re more pragmatic than romantic. Allie and Noah’s romance is grounded in reality, something that can happen to anyone.

Besides Nicholas is one of the best selling authors. Three of his books have been made into movies including A Message in a Bottle, A Walk to Remember and The Notebook of course. And the Notebook - yes, the movie is good but the book is better.

4. Love story by Erich Segal
All the romantics in the world - listen- you will not want to miss this novel. It’s really one of the most shamelessly sentimental love stories ever written.

You mushy people will know what’s exactly in store for you when the opening line reads something like this, "What can you say about a twenty-five year old girl who died? That she was beautiful and brilliant. That she loved Mozart and Bach. The Beatles. And me."

5. Pride and prejudice by Jane Austen
In the beginning the language of the book might be too tedious for you to continue more than 50 pages but trust me every detail of this masterpiece is finely tuned to create one of the most prolific books ever written.

The story follows Elizabeth Bennet, a middle class girl, and her love affair with one of the richest man in town, Darcy. The romance straight out of regency era will leave you dreamy-eyed for years to come.

6. Morning Glory by LaVyrle Spencer
This book is bound to captivate your heart through its sentimental and artistic appeal.

When ex-con Will Parker arrives in Georgia, after the Great Depression, he promptly realises that this town is no good for him. That is until he happens to catch a local paper and sees in the classified ads a woman advertising for a husband. How this trivial trick of fate entwines their life together makes it a riveting read even for a cynic.

7. Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte
I have to confess our generation has limited admiration for the two Giant Victorians, Austen and Bronte, preferring Danielle Steele and Dan Brown than them. But the next time you go to the library, go to the literature section and pick up this book. You won’t regret it.

Jane Eyre is an orphan who lives with her aunt but doesn’t find herself fitting in that family. Emotionally abused by her aunt and banned from the company of her cousins, she finds a job to get away from her loneliness where she falls in love with her Byronic employer, Edward Rochester.

In spite of the book being more than 150 years old, you’ll find the narrative compelling and engaging.

8. Whitney, My love by Judith McNaught
This is one story which is sure to linger in your heart forever. The story about Whitney who grew from a sassy "hoyden" into a suave woman is instantaneously relatable. And the things she goes through to win the heart of Paul, her childhood love, is wrought with emotions.

By the end of the book you’ll go from jeering her to cheering her, that makes it a complete Diva read.

9. Knight in Shining Armor by Jude Devereaux
How many times have you heard yourself saying to your friends, “I’m waiting for my knight in shining armor” and how many times have you kissed frogs in the hope of them turning into princes? Probably a million times right? If you’ve turned from hopeful to hopeless, it’s time to read Knight in Shining Armor.

Dougless Montgomery has planned a perfect holiday for her fiancé, Robert. But after a stupid fight, he abandons her in a churchyard near the tomb of Nicholas Stafford, an earl who died in 1564. Magically the tomb comes alive… and how the story takes a twist? We’re not going to tell you find it for yourself.

10. Once and always by Judith McNaught
Reading Judith’s books is like having a pint of Baskin and Robins and eating it in one sitting. It’s THAT captivating. Although Kingdom of Dreams and Something Wonderful are excellent, this comes up tops.

This novel is about an orphaned American beauty, Victoria Seaton, who travels to England to claim her long-lost heritage. On her arrival she falls in love with notorious Lord Jason Fielding. Appalled and attracted to him at the same time, Victoria has a hard time understanding her own feelings. Eventually does she or doesn’t she realise her love, is something you must read to find out.

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Top 10 Ways to Propose Marriage

Below are the top 10 ways to propose marriage:



- In the event that you have beaches that are close by you could take her there right before sunset. Enjoy a nice ride with easy going music in the car. When the sun sets take out the ring and propose.

- One of the best top 10 ways to propose marriage is to plan an extensive treasure hunt. You can start the hunt out by giving your soon to be partner in marriage the first clue. Be sure not to make the clues easy and not to difficult. When your partner comes to the last place be there waiting holding the ring out in your hand ready to propose.
- Another one of the best ways to propose marriage to her is too go out on a boat ride. Take her somewhere and then fake the boat being stuck after "much struggling" finally say something along the lines of "without you in my life I would feel like I was stranded on an island that no ship ever came to pass" {bride to be name here}, will you marry me.
- A classic and one of the most effective top 10 ways to proposal is getting down on one knee and asking your girl to marry you. Although repetitive it does tend to work almost every time.
- Here's yet another sure fire way to win your lover with this marriage proposal. Simply layout some rose petals and or other flowers on your front lawn spelling about "Will You Marry Me". Trust me; your lover is going to absolutely love this. This is certainly one of the top 10 ways to propose marriage.
- Take your lover to a special place where you can easily shout and hear your echo without disturbance. Start off with something like "I Love you", let her answer and then when she's done stand behind her and shout as loud as you can "Will You Marry Me". When she turns around have the jewelry box open with you on one knee presenting her with your engagement ring. Follow the evening up with a spectacular dinner at a great restaurant.
- Another option from our list of the top 10 best ways propose marriage is to setup a nice dinner at her favorite restaurant and have it accompanied by a violinist or pianist and as you order desert have the waiter bring out a dish with the wedding ring on it. Make sure the box is open for you to take the ring and has rose petals surrounding it. Now all that's left is to "pop the question".
- If you really want to impress your soon to be wife considering having a plane spell your proposal in the air for you. Yes, those magic words "will you marry me"!
- One of the most common top 10 ways to propose is going where the two of you first met. When you go to the place where you first met her reminisce for a few moments and then take out the ring, get down on one knee, and ask her to marry you.
- Last but not least on our list of top 10 ways to propose marriage is to create a memory book. Take a note book and make it like a diary of your time together. Towards the end cut out the center of enough pages to fit a ring in and as you turn to that page ask her to marry you.

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THE TOP 10 REASONS I FELL IN LOVE WITH YOU

My hormones peeked into the future,
and all they saw was you.





You laugh at my jokes...well, MOST of them.





I needed a photo of someone
to put inside my picture frame.
(Say Cheese!!!)





You don't have TOO many bad habits!





You make my insides do things
I'd ordinarily take as a sign to call
9-1-1.





C'mon! Have you SEEN all the losers out there??





Two words: Nice Buns.





Your hugs make me woozy,
Your kisses are intoxicating.
Just the thought of you,
Makes my heart beat like a runaway train.





We're so much alike-except we're the opposite sex.




That I fell in love with you is...

'Cuz you're so darn lovable,
I just couldn't help myself!!!

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How to be a Good Wife to your Husband

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1) Be pleasant: It is said that ‘we need to treat others the way we want ourselves to be treated.’ Never be rude to our husband, family and friends. Be warm, kind, positive, understanding and friendly. Work to be pleasant toward your husband. Don’t be one of those people who make everyone around you feel bad just because you’ve had a hard day. Welcome your husband with a smile when he comes home instead of a sour face. A good wife honors her hubby by keeping a pleasant tone in her voice, a happy smile on her face and a neat and clean appearance. Listen to him talk about his day especially if it was a difficult one. If you don't like how you partner treats you, take a minute to notice how you treat your partner and correct your behavior.


2) Treat your Husband with Respect: If you expect respect from others we need to treat others with respect too. Haven’t we all heard ‘Give respect and take respect’. Respect can be reflected in the way one talks and behaves. Always speak in a loving and refrain from speaking in a harsh manner. A good wife respects her hubby and she never chooses to belittle, strike, humiliate or otherwise harm him in private nor in public. It is better to watch what you say and to think your thoughts through before speaking as it is not possible to take back the words once they have been spoken. A good wife will treat her man with respect in front of others and at home.

3) Communicate: Communication is key to a good and solid marriage. Do not hide things from your husband or keep secrets after marriage. Be honest to him. Find time to sit and talk with your husband on a daily basis even if it is for only half an hour. If you let things bottle up and feel that you cannot share with your husband anything then your marriage is in trouble. Be a good listener when your husband is talking. You may have a dozen important things to tell him but allow him to talk first. Don't greet him with complaints and problems the moment he comes back from work. Good Communication also helps to build trust and strengthen your relationship. After marriage the wife and husband are a team or partners. Do not take any major decisions about the family without consulting with husband. Fights or problems may happen in between the two but do not let the world know about it rather solve it between yourselves. The fight you had last week over shopping or whatever is over and done with. So move on with it and stop rehashing old stuff and reminding him of his faults. Do not resort to name calling, hitting, spitting, breaking dishes or anything else when you lose your temper. If you do he may actually start to fall out of love with you and you could lose him all together.

4) Be Supportive: A husband expects wife’s support and understanding especially in times of troubles. A good wife loves her hubby through his successes and failures and provides reassurance when he's feeling down. She is a nurturer and an equal partner in the marriage. Support your husband in all stages of his career and life. Do not belittle your man or hurt his ego. It is often heard saying that ‘a wife can make a man or break a man’. There’s no quicker way to build resentment in your man than to criticize him or belittle him especially in front of others. Be proud of him on his accomplishments and genuinely complement him. If you do this you can expect your husband to behave with you in the same manner and also respect you more for your support and thoughtfulness. When you don’t agree with him respectfully let him know you don’t agree.

5) Do not nag: No man would like a nagging wife. If you want to get your own way ask him nicely. Many wives think that is the only way to get her husband to do things is by nagging. But the truth is that your nagging can create unwanted rift or can make things worse between the two of you. Your husband is a grown man with his own thoughts and desires. Just because you think he should be doing something particular doesn't mean he has to do it.

6) Give him his space: As a wife you need to understand you’re your husband has a life other than you also. He has his family, friends and colleagues who too are part of his life. He also may have some hobbies or passions he is involved in. Don’t expect his undivided attention. Don’t stop him if he wants to go out and hang out with his friends sometimes or engage in a hobby or sport that he likes. An interfering wife can sometimes be too irritating.

7) Keep him happy in Bed: Sexual intimacy is one of the most essential things in any marriage. Please your man in bed. If you cannot keep your man happy in Bed he would go where he can get it. After all, a Man is a man!

8) Plan Surprises: Men like surprises too. It can be anything like organizing his birthday party without him knowing about it or planning a special night of passion by playing a seductress. Your surprises do not have to be elaborate and can be as simple as making him his favorite snack or his favorite dishes once in a while even if you would rather eat something else.

9) Express your love and appreciation often: Men likes praises and appreciation. Make the best of your time together. Men like to hear the words ‘I love you’ too. Also join him in activities that he's interested in even though you would have preferred to do something else or give him a thoughtful gift once in a while. Make it a point never to forget the special days in his life. Pamper him very often, especially when he is at home. You can even cook for him or give him a good massage. Making him dependent on you by doing his chores when he is at home is not a bad idea. Let him miss you and think about you when you are not around. These gestures won’t go unnoticed and it may even inspire him to do something nice for you. Don't withhold affection.

10) Honesty, Loyalty and Dedication: A good wife would be honest, loyal and dedicated to her husband. Marriage is a life long commitment and the vows you have taken at the time of marriage should be kept in all conditions.

11) Prepare yourself: A good wife honors her hubby by keeping a pleasant tone in her voice, a happy smile on her face and a neat and clean appearance. Take special care about your appearance and everyday. Include exercises or yoga in your daily routine. Be hygienic. Some woman feel that once they are married why they should dress up or take care of their appearance. A man likes his wife to smell good. If you are unhealthy or not presentable your man may cheat you behind your back.

12) Prepare the House: Maintain a clean house all the time. Clear away the clutter and spend time decorating the house. Apart from this be wise with money and take all the responsibilities of a wife seriously without complaining.
I am sure any man would be happy to get a wife with all these qualities. Have I left anything? Please feel free to add through comments.

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How Women Flirt

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Top 10 ways to make a woman fall in love with you

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After you meet a woman and date her, you get to know her better. You probably start feeling closer to her and may even find yourself falling in love with her. But her feelings may still remain a mystery to you. You’re not even sure whether you’re doing things right. How can you get her to fall in love with you? Here are 10 ways that you can make a woman fall in love with you, and at the end of it, she’s sure to be crazy about you.

1. Display maturity

It’s always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself. 

2. Romance her

Make her feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t cost a lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re thinking about her and can’t wait to see her again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and truly special.

3. Faithful

Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her know that you have eyes only for her and the rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and your relationship. Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very powerful feeling. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that she can count on you. Women need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the relationship to a higher level. 

4. Time spent with her is precious

Make it clear that you really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of what you’re doing together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly tells you she’d like to meet you because she’s finishing work early and you had something else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you cater to her to the exclusion of everything else, just that you sometimes sacrifice something you care about to be with her. If she begs you to come see a movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that you did. She will surely reward you! Women also love it if you do some girly stuff with them like shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your masculinity in the process. It just makes you more of a man in their eyes!

5. Compliment her

You don’t have to go over the top always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair is or what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. While a woman always loves hearing that she’s looking good, you can’t keep telling her that. It will lose its charm eventually. A compliment is valued when there is a surprise element to it. Telling her how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle nature, all these are deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the recipient feel ten feet tall.

6. Laughter

Use humor as your biggest ally. If she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing you again, you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just what you’re aiming for. It’s not about making her laugh over your one-liners and finding you hilarious. It’s more about being on the same wavelength and enjoying the other’s sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar situations or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about and cracks you up. Finding the same joke funny, or sharing a smile, draws you closer and makes you feel like kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!

7. Learn what turns her on

And use it to advantage. Find out just the kind of touch that excites her, how she loves to be kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by coming on too strong. Let her see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong rein on your passions if she decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let her set the pace, and ensure she understands that while your desires for her are strong, you will respect the limits she sets. Respect her and her body and she will appreciate you more for it. Women love it when they can see how much they turn you on and yet find you willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to her, don’t always kiss her or caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do it just to make her feel special and because you want to convey that to her, and she will adore you for it. 

8. Give her space

Don’t be possessive and make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her have her own life too. Often when in a relationship, people make the mistake of spending every waking moment that they can manage together, and in the process, alienate themselves from friends and even lose their identity. Let her be her own person.

9. Thoughtful

You remember little things she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments. It may be that she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got a cold, and you land up with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told you how she adores a particular entrée at a popular restaurant and the next time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it and make her happy.

10. “I love you”

And of course, while showing her should give her the message, there’s a lot to be said for saying it loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to you. You might want to think about when you’re first going to tell her those three words. If it's too early in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not just choosing the right moment, but making every small moment count. You don’t have to wait only till you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it's least expected makes it all the more precious. She might be telling you something and the feeling just overwhelms you – tell her at that instant. She won’t mind being interrupted mid-sentence!

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Signs a Man is Falling in Love With You

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the signs of a man falling in love to a woman

One of the signs a man is falling in love with you is his overwhelming desire to spend time with you. This doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to devote all of his free time to you, but he does enjoy being with you more than anything else. When a man is developing strong feelings for a woman he'll rearrange his entire schedule just to see her and he'll want to talk to her several times a day. If your guy calls you up just to say hi and wants to see you as often as possible, he's definitely falling in love. You can take a lot of comfort in the fact that he isn't making excuses for why he can't see you. When a man does this it typically means he's not feeling a very strong emotional connection.

Another indicator of a man who is moving past the stages of like into love is he'll want to talk about you more than he'll want to talk about himself. Many men are a bit self focused by nature and when they are still testing the dating waters, they enjoy sharing information about themselves. You and what is going on in your life is a second priority to them. However, when a man is falling in love that focus shifts and he just can't get enough of the woman he adores. He'll want to know everything there is to know about you from where you were born to every detail about your day. When a man always brings up what is going on in his life or the things he enjoys, he's yet to fall in love.

If the man you are with now values your opinion and asks you to help him make important decisions, that's a very promising sign. Many men are hesitant to involve a woman in decisions, until they find one that steals their heart away. You don't need to question what he's feeling for you once he starts doing this. He's well on his way to being crazy in love with you.

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